Wednesday, August 29, 2012

A course in Miracles


Donya with Garuda in Bali
 
In Feb of 1991, I was introduced to a book written by Helen Schucman a clinical psychologist and professor of medical psychology at Columbia University.  The book is in fact, a life course called “A Course in Miracles”. The objective of the study is to examine our view of the world we live in and in turn explore how our conditioned perceptions affect our attitudes and behaviors. 

What is Real?
An offering to the after life

“Nothing real can be threatened. Nothing unreal exists. Herein lies the peace of God” Schucman

 Life’s transition has my family adjusting to daily living in the USA. We are in a new environment but not completely unfamiliar to me.  Things have changed in the USA since 1996 such as car styles, hand phones and internet.  For my wife and children America is in a New World, with wall to wall carpet, drive through; banking, pharmacies, coffee shops and food stores.  

There is more than one way to look at things

Watching my family discover many of the things I take for granted such as drive through shopping, vacuum cleaners and recreation centers reminds me of when I first arrived in Bali.

I was fresh off the plane and had no idea what lay ahead in South East Asia.  The first night I stayed in a small room in Denpasar, Bali, Indonesia.  The room was clean with white tile floors, a double bed with a thin mattress and clean sheets.  There was no air conditioning but it did offer an attached rest room with a western style Stanley toilet and a separate shower with a tub between the two.   

The weather was a bit humid and in the morning my skin felt clammy so I decided to take a bath in the tub of water next to the shower.  I climbed in; a chore that was not easy due to its tall, narrow construction.  I became a bit frustrated because I craved a full body dunking but the tub was too small to handle my 187cm/6’2”, 130kg/286lb girth and frame.  After several attempts of trying to fold my body into the tub I surrendered and satisfied my need with a shower.  After I was done bathing, I remember making a mental note that the Balinese must be a very small people to fit in such a tiny tub.

I moved to the cooler weather in the mountains a few days later and was enjoying a cocktail with an Englishman that had befriended me soon after I arrived in Ubud.  He was an artist and an expat that had been painting and sculpting most of his adult life.  One night while we were out,  I asked him where I could find a bath tub that was big enough for me?  He looked bewildered as if he had not heard my question.  He said every spa on the island has a tub that would hold me.   I thanked him and told him of my experience in Denpasar.   He began laughing so hard that I thought he was going to pee himself. Once he was finished with his heart felt laugh he said: “You Bloody tourist! That is the water to wash your arse with!”  I had no idea what he was saying so he explained more clearly.  The tub of water wasn’t a bath tub it was a trough of water to replace toilet paper; I was meant to wash my bum with it not bathe in it! 

 

Conditioned Perception

That was my first real lesson in the course of miracles; not everything is as it seems simply because I was taught to interpret what I see in a certain way. Every world is different and at the same time the same hence the saying; same, same but different. 

The key to emotional, spiritual, physical, financial and mental happiness is to accept that everyone is different and that there is no one single right way to live life, follow a diet or eat right.
same, same but different
Human beings around the world are the same but different and it is in these differences that great treasures can be discovered. 
 
Japanese dish
Where food is concerned, all Homo sapiens have the same essential food requirements; minerals, proteins and carbohydrates. There is no need to only eat what we were conditioned to as children. Explore a neighborhood ethnic food store and discover new amazing flavors, nutrition and color.  Visit an Ethiopian or Nepalese eatery and enjoy a great meal.  Open your mind to new ways of seeing the world around you.

Go have some fun.
Always ready for a good time
                                 
Geo                                    

Where ever you go there you are

 

2 comments:

  1. I laughed a lot when I read about bath tub
    Love it
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    1. cheers, once the dust settles i hope to be back to 4 to 5 post a month. thank you for reading.

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